I Was Vulnerable, And He Used It Against Me...

Share with me an email sent to me;

"Hello Nerovianne,

 I have been following your blog, I actually got the link from a friend and been checking in everytime to see whats new.

I am married and blessed with a wonderful boy, My problem is I have been having series of misunderstand with my husband, he doesn't seem to be interested in me anymore, I try to be nice all the time and he just keeps pissing me off.

I am very learned, and I love meeting new friends, checking my facebook i bumped into an old high school class mate, he sent me messages, at first he sounded so nice an all, we became somewhat close, calling each other till it became out of hand, I knew he was too good to be true, but my head wasn't doing the maths, i was stupidly engulfed with his "You are so sexy", "Your body is perfect even after child birth". I went as far as sending him Nudes, but without a face(Thank Goodness),and having Phone sex with him once. one day i asked him to send me a picture of himself and he refused, the the lust started to fade away, he would give me short answers, i read the signs and backed out". My problem is do i have to send him a very lengthy email, to wash him inside and out, will i ever forgive myself for being so foolish with him, cos i feel very used, i feel so depressed knowing that i have done something unspeakable" What do i do?

  And here was my reply;

Hello Dear,
 Thanks for emailing me and also trusting my Judgement by sharing your story with me. At this point in your life, you are very vulnerable, for the fact you don't get compliments from your husband, doesn't necessarily mean he feels un-attracted to you, you can always look in on the good side of things first with your husband, Speak to him, he cant read your mind, you have to tell him how you feel when people come on to you to give you compliments and he who is at home doesn't get to compliment you at all.
 By speaking your mind with him, I can assure you that he is likely to understand you and retrace his steps back to your loving heart.\
           As for the other guy, try to cut ties with him, delete him, ignore him, he wouldn't use the pictures against you as he will also want to protect his own image and stuff, don't give your numbers to guys, don't even tell them your problems at home, they will use it against you just to have a piece of you, we women are very weak when it comes to such things.
What I want you to do is, erase every contact you have with the Ass wipe, get yourself together, get on your knees and ask God for forgiveness, then go and tell your husband how you feel about his attitude and how its pushing you away.
  Will post this on the blog, but without your details, so maybe someone can give a better advice than myself ok.
You have a splendid day.
Nerovianne x

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