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If you are in a long term relationship do you ever bother to dress up for your man?
I am not talking about the french maids outfit in the bedroom or dressing up to go out together but simply dressing up for him.
In many marriages and long term relationships it’s all too easy to slip into the habit of wearing makeup and nice clothes only when you go out but at home you wear sloppy sweats and no make up.
Let’s be honest none of us are inclined to don our best frock and a face full of makeup to clean the loo or if you do you perhaps need to look at why you feel that urge!
However, when we are first dating most of us would rather be seen dead (as long as we have nice undies on) than for our man to see us without makeup and a push up bra, yet as time goes on we get “comfortable” around our man. What I call 'See finish" lol.
He has heard us snore, seen us with a runny nose when we have a cold and there was that awful time we did a loud fart and he was three feet away .. so do we need to dress up for him?
Yes! there is much more to your relationship now than there was in your dating days but physical attraction is still an important part of any relationship.
This relationship comfort zone is often coupled with a low sex drive, if we don’t look attractive and sexy then we don’t feel it. There is no need to wait until you are in the mood then dress up, do it the other way around, dress up first and you’d be surprised how it can change your mood.
Have you ever sat at work or in a bar and looked at other men thinking, my old fella never bothers to look or smell that good anymore? If we are honest most of us have but the downside is that most of them have done the same with women.
This doesn’t mean we are all bored with our partners and looking elsewhere, if you ask the average man in a happy long term relationship they will say they love their partner but do wish she would make the effort she used to. Same with us, we wish he would take that saggy old
jumper off, have a shave and slap some smellies on occasionally .. (how many heads are now looking toward the sofa thinking “hell yeah”).
Make the first move ladies, rekindle your dating days by surprising your man and dress up for him tonight. He may well ask “what’s this all about” so just be honest and say your relationship is important to you and you want to remain attractive to each other, if he can have steak at home why would he consider pork pie outside?
If he responds well to your efforts tell him to go and take a shower and put some decent clothes on before he’s allowed to spend time with you, then cuddle up together and remember what it was like to date each other when you always dressed up for your man.
You’re Dating Him Not Other Women
"How to avoid common mistakes made when getting dressed for a date. Don’t let your ego get the best of you, focus on who is truly important."
When you’re dressing to go out, your goal in choosing an outfit should be to dress to impress your man–you’re dating him, not other women. If your intention is to attract other women’s attention, no matter what the purpose, then you are dressing for the wrong reason. So, if you’re wondering whether you are trying to dress to impress your man or if you are crossing that line, taking these things into consideration may help you find out.
You should care what he thinks
Sure, that necklace or dress you’ve chosen may be the one that all your friends ask to borrow when they have a special date, but what does he think about it? Have you ever even bothered to ask him? Choose your outfit with his likes and dislikes in mind.
If you’ve been dating for a while, you probably have gained some idea of what he thinks about particular outfits from his first reaction when he sees you. Remember this when choosing your outfit. If this is a first date, however, you may not be sure. In this case, opt for something that always looks good, such as the old stand-by, the little black dress. Rarely can you go wrong with this fashion choice.
In many marriages and long term relationships it’s all too easy to slip into the habit of wearing makeup and nice clothes only when you go out but at home you wear sloppy sweats and no make up.
Let’s be honest none of us are inclined to don our best frock and a face full of makeup to clean the loo or if you do you perhaps need to look at why you feel that urge!
However, when we are first dating most of us would rather be seen dead (as long as we have nice undies on) than for our man to see us without makeup and a push up bra, yet as time goes on we get “comfortable” around our man. What I call 'See finish" lol.
He has heard us snore, seen us with a runny nose when we have a cold and there was that awful time we did a loud fart and he was three feet away .. so do we need to dress up for him?
Yes! there is much more to your relationship now than there was in your dating days but physical attraction is still an important part of any relationship.
This relationship comfort zone is often coupled with a low sex drive, if we don’t look attractive and sexy then we don’t feel it. There is no need to wait until you are in the mood then dress up, do it the other way around, dress up first and you’d be surprised how it can change your mood.
Have you ever sat at work or in a bar and looked at other men thinking, my old fella never bothers to look or smell that good anymore? If we are honest most of us have but the downside is that most of them have done the same with women.
This doesn’t mean we are all bored with our partners and looking elsewhere, if you ask the average man in a happy long term relationship they will say they love their partner but do wish she would make the effort she used to. Same with us, we wish he would take that saggy old
jumper off, have a shave and slap some smellies on occasionally .. (how many heads are now looking toward the sofa thinking “hell yeah”).
Make the first move ladies, rekindle your dating days by surprising your man and dress up for him tonight. He may well ask “what’s this all about” so just be honest and say your relationship is important to you and you want to remain attractive to each other, if he can have steak at home why would he consider pork pie outside?
If he responds well to your efforts tell him to go and take a shower and put some decent clothes on before he’s allowed to spend time with you, then cuddle up together and remember what it was like to date each other when you always dressed up for your man.
You’re Dating Him Not Other Women
"How to avoid common mistakes made when getting dressed for a date. Don’t let your ego get the best of you, focus on who is truly important."
When you’re dressing to go out, your goal in choosing an outfit should be to dress to impress your man–you’re dating him, not other women. If your intention is to attract other women’s attention, no matter what the purpose, then you are dressing for the wrong reason. So, if you’re wondering whether you are trying to dress to impress your man or if you are crossing that line, taking these things into consideration may help you find out.
You should care what he thinks
Sure, that necklace or dress you’ve chosen may be the one that all your friends ask to borrow when they have a special date, but what does he think about it? Have you ever even bothered to ask him? Choose your outfit with his likes and dislikes in mind.
If you’ve been dating for a while, you probably have gained some idea of what he thinks about particular outfits from his first reaction when he sees you. Remember this when choosing your outfit. If this is a first date, however, you may not be sure. In this case, opt for something that always looks good, such as the old stand-by, the little black dress. Rarely can you go wrong with this fashion choice.
Size doesn’t matter
We’re not talking about that size, and in this case it isn’t even size we’re talking about, its height. How you look standing next to him is what’s important. If you wear towering high heels or boots just so you can be the tallest woman in the room, even if he is tall, it is going to detract from how you look as a couple. Choose your heel size to complement his and your height together.
However, if you’re short, don’t think you have to raise your height disproportionately in order to “even things out,” especially if you are not used to wearing high heels or they do not complement your figure. Your self-consciousness while trying to awkwardly walk in shoes that you don’t normally wear will not make a good impression on anyone.
It’s his opinion you should be interested in, not that of other women
Again, your intention should be to dress to impress your man, and his opinion should be the most important. Other women aren’t likely to be very complimentary anyway, and you can bet that some of their remarks will get back to him one way or the other. When they do, if he does begin to feel as though you would rather worry about what the other women think about you over what he feels, he may choose to end the relationship.
If you choose to treat your life like a fashion show, that is entirely up to you, but remember who your audience is. Avoid making critical mistakes when it comes to appearance because you may repel than attract.
Thank me Later, Have a nice Monday!
Remember,
Its Dedicated for your Success and Personal Benefit...
Nerovianne...
Ps.
Keep the emails coming, Please I am not a matchmaker... Thank You..
We’re not talking about that size, and in this case it isn’t even size we’re talking about, its height. How you look standing next to him is what’s important. If you wear towering high heels or boots just so you can be the tallest woman in the room, even if he is tall, it is going to detract from how you look as a couple. Choose your heel size to complement his and your height together.
However, if you’re short, don’t think you have to raise your height disproportionately in order to “even things out,” especially if you are not used to wearing high heels or they do not complement your figure. Your self-consciousness while trying to awkwardly walk in shoes that you don’t normally wear will not make a good impression on anyone.
It’s his opinion you should be interested in, not that of other women
Again, your intention should be to dress to impress your man, and his opinion should be the most important. Other women aren’t likely to be very complimentary anyway, and you can bet that some of their remarks will get back to him one way or the other. When they do, if he does begin to feel as though you would rather worry about what the other women think about you over what he feels, he may choose to end the relationship.
If you choose to treat your life like a fashion show, that is entirely up to you, but remember who your audience is. Avoid making critical mistakes when it comes to appearance because you may repel than attract.
Thank me Later, Have a nice Monday!
Remember,
Its Dedicated for your Success and Personal Benefit...
Nerovianne...
Ps.
Keep the emails coming, Please I am not a matchmaker... Thank You..
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