Friend Zone for What!!!!!! Graduate It!!!

Hello lovelies, I am so sorry i couldn't post anything the whole of yesterday, had a very hectic day, but hey, it was also a wonderful day too, as i slept like a baby...;)

Enjoy....

Today I have realized that a lot of guys are usually friend "zoned" unto the fact that they don't know how to make the first move, so I will put this as "Moving Past The Friend Zone To Lover". So ladies get your male friends over here, you might be helping someone out.. ;)

How to move past the friend zone,here are some tips that can really help you get your friend to become your girlfriend but only if you have the courage to change a few things about yourself and how you think about women. As you may have already guessed, what women say and what actually drives them in love and attraction are two very different things and knowing this is essential.

I will make this point on how to attract women short - Women do not want someone who is nice and treats them like a princess at every turn. Women want a man who is confident and in control of his life, a man who is strong of will and decisive and shows leadership. Women want an Alpha Male.

If you are the sort of guy who panders to this girls every whim and spends as often as you can with her listening to her, being her shoulder to cry on and generally following her like a lovesick puppy you are not the guy her subconscious mind wants. Swallow that...

As such you need to re-brand yourself as a man and a potential boyfriend. This is part and parcel of escaping the friend zone and requires a few changes to how you interact with this girl and how you see yourself. Here are a few tips that will start you on the path to making her your girlfriend from just being a friend.

Graciously Accept Your Status As A Friend
The first thing to do once you find yourself in the friend zone, is to graciously accept your status as a friend. This is such an important thing to do when you're put in the friend zone. The reason why you should graciously accept your status as a friend is because responding by acting hostile or depressed will only work against you. If you take rejection from a girl personally, you're basically telling her you do believe you're not good enough for her, which conveys a total lack of confidence. Any girl can tell you that low confidence is very unattractive.

You also have to remember that there are many reasons why a girl puts you in the friend zone that have nothing to do with you. She might be recovering from another relationship, she might have commitment issues, or she might be too busy with her life to date anyone.

So you really shouldn't take being put in the friend zone personally. The problem is that many guys take rejection very personally and end up breaking off all contact with the girl. This is the wrong thing to do for several reasons.

You'll never have another chance with the girl
Getting upset and breaking off all ties will make you look childish and insecure
It gives her the power to control your emotions

So instead of bristling up and acting upset when you're put in the friend zone, try as hard as possible to be okay with being just a friend. It's the only way you'll ever get out of the friend zone, and believe it or not, being in the friend zone can actually be a good thing for you. After graciously accepting your status as a friend, the next step is to level the playing field.

Level The Playing Field
The next step to getting out of the friend zone is to level the playing field. When a girl puts you in the friend zone, she passes you up and keeps her eyes open for other guys. If you stay around and keep pursuing her, you'll come off as needy, pathetic, and maybe even creepy. So if she's looking for other people to date, in order to level the playing field, you should be looking for other people to date too. By leveling the playing field, you show her several important things that will help you get out of the friend zone:

You aren't easily affected by rejection
She's not that important to you
Other girls will happily date you

The importance of not being easily affected by rejection was explained in the previous step. By showing her she's not that important to you, it'll help further level the playing field. It shows her you don't believe she's too good for you. By showing her that other girls will happily date you, she'll naturally be more interested in you (people simply want what they can't have). All of these things will send her a strong message that will make her rethink her decision to pass you up and put you in the friend zone. Once you have leveled the playing field with her, the next step is to go for the kill.

Go For The Kill

The last step to getting out of the friend zone is to go for the kill. You've established with the girl that you won't get hostile or upset if rejected and that you have other dating options.  You should start flirting with her more and eventually let her know you'd be interested in the possibility of dating her. Again, she will choose whether or not to put you in the friend zone again, but this time, you will have the odds stacked in your favor. If she puts you in the friend zone again, don't sweat it. You'll have other dating prospects and can move onto the next girl without missing a beat.

Organize your time better and spend less time hanging out with her. 

Make sure she understands you are a busy guy with a life. Control the time you spend with her so that the things you do together are memorable and exciting. This is vital because a single episode of exciting fun times outweighs hours upon hours of just hanging out.
Find ways to show off the "alpha" side of yourself. Ways to show you are decisive and strong.
Do not put up with her crap. This is tough but instead of rushing to her side when she is emotional take a stand and do not be treated like an emotional sponge... let her deal with it even if it is hard to say know when you see her so sad.
 

How to move past the friend zone so you can be considered a potential boyfriend is more than just these tips but they give you a good start in re-branding yourself as women who have categorized a male as a "friend" will never see them in any other light until YOU push their buttons that blurs this tag to something more attractive as a partner.

Nerovianne xx

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Thank me later guys...